Ithable yemithi yamaphakathi ayisifundazwe esifundazweni. Abantu bahlukumeza kulo ukuthetha, ukudlala amagame, noma kupha kahle imithi. Kungabikho enkulu noma encane, enobuhle noma yizinye kuphela. Iyadlalwa ngemithi, iglashi, noma imetalu. Ithable yamaphakathi enhle iyakusiza ukuthi isifundazwe sakho sibonakale singenakho nokubonakala njengokuthi kuyakhona. Uma ufuna ukukhetha eyodwa, kufanele uqonde ngendlela yakho yokubhekana, ubani ubukhono bakho, kanye naphi ukuthola eyodwa okuyakhuluma ngokuphelele. Sinya lapha ukusiza ukuthola ithable yamaphakathi eyokuthi isifundazwe sakho sibonakale njengokuthi kuyakhona. Ungaqondwa futhi ukudibanisa indlela eyodwa iphophelo lezintaba ukuzama ukugcina ithable yamaphakathi yakho.
Kukhetha isitayela sokudla, ubuchwepheshe bungumqondo omuhle. Uyathanda izinto ezintsha? Okanye kuyisiphi esihle kakhulu, esidala? Isitayela esintsha sikhona ngezindlela ezingafanele futhi ngezibhalo zokubhala, ngakholwa isitayela esidala sikhona kahle kusuka kwezinkamba ezimnyama nezindlela zokufana okuhle. Bheka izinto zakho zokuzalisa ezinye. Uma zonke zinkamba ezimnyama, isitayela sesiglashe singabonakala njengoba ayikho. Kodwa uma indlu yinkulungwane yezicatshulwane, isitayela esingaphansi esomnyama noma esibomvu singasebenza ukulandela kahle. Ubukhulu bubalulekile kakhulu futhi! Isitayela esikhulu singaba yisiqu senqanaba esincane, isitayela esincane singagcina kahle ekuphakameni ekhulu. Kuhle ukubhalisa indawo apho uzoyifaka ukuze ibe yinhloko. Futhi khumbula ukuthi uyayisebenzisa kanjani. Uma kusukela kwezincwadi lapho uyabhuka imithombo, isitayela esikhulu kuhle kakhulu. Uma kuyisilingo kuphela, isitayela esincane singasebenza. Manje ngokubhalisa isikhundla. Izitayela zokudla zinadola kakhulu noma zincane. Qala ngokubhalisa isikhundla kabefore ukuthenga. Bheka amasithili amanyenye, ku-intanethi futhi ku-mashopu. Ngamanye amaxesha izisale zinakubeka isikhundla esihle. Usizobuyelela ukubheka amashopu ezigcwele noma amasithili ku-intanethi. Ungabonakala isitayela esihle kahle ngokuncane. Sinya inemithombo eminingi ngamaphuzu amaningana, ngakho ungafumana into eyodwa kahle. Kuhle ukuthatha isikhathi ukuze ufume into oyithanda kakhulu.
Uma ufuna ukuthenga izitafu zemphakathi ngokukhulu noma ukusenda imali, ukuthenga ngokwesibonelo kuyizinkinga eziningi. Ukuthenga ngokwesibonelo kusho ukuthenga okuningi ngaphakade, futhi iimpahla ziyaphansi kakhulu. Amasithili amaningi emashini ayathenga ngokwesibonelo, kodwa kufuneka uthenge izitafu eziningi. Hlola umthengisi wendawo yakho, bafuna izinkampani eziningi ukuthenga ngokwesibonelo. Noma ubuka kwinthanethi. Izwebhusayithi ezingaqondi ukuthenga ngokwesibonelo kunezinto eziningi zokuthenga ngokwesibonelo. I-Sinya ichaziwe ngokuba iyasebenza ngokwesibonelo esihle kakhulu zemphakathi ngezimpahla ezinconywa kakhulu. Ungadlala kwenziwe kwebhusayithi yabo ujulise ukuthi kuzikhiwe kuphi. Buka iziphakamiso, izinkampani eziningi zinakha nezilungiselelo noma izikhupha zokuthenga ngokwesibonelo kubantu ababuya. Unga’kabi ukuxhumana nothengisi. Ubiza impahla futhi uma ungenakha impahla enhle kumaqasha ukuthenga okuningi. Ngamanye amazwi, kunezimpahla ezithile kubizinesi noma kubuya kwezinye izinto. Ukufika ekuvikheni kwemashini kuyizinkinga eziningi. Ukhuluma nabasambiseli, ubona izinto ngokwanele. Futhi ungathola izilungiselelo ezithile ezikhiweyo kuphela kuleli phakathi. Khumbula, isitafu esihle somphakathi asifuni ukuthenga imali enkulu kakhulu. Ngokuchaza kancane nokuzimela, ungathola isitafu esihle sokuphatha isitayela sakho nesibiko sokuthenga. Ukhozi lweqoffi ukufana kahle.
Umhlaba wokusebenzisa isithombe sokudla kuyisisekelo esikhulu. Okumangalisayo kufanele kube nzima, kube nembono emihle, nekubhekise kuhle endlini yakho. Umhlaba uyisisekelo esihle kakhulu. Kungasebenziswa ukwenziwa kwe-oak, kwe-maple, kwe-pine. I-oak iyenzeka kakhulu futhi ibhala iminyaka mingi, i-maple inembono emhlophe emhle. I-pine ibizwa ngokukhula kakhulu futhi ingasuswa ngamabala amaningi, ikhona kahle kuma-dlina okuphakeme nokuphakeme. Umhlaba uba nomthwalo wokushisa ekhaya, kunezindimana eziningi kusukela kwezintandokazi kuya kwezintandokazi zokugcina. Imetalu yisisekelo esihle kanye. I-steel noma i-aluminum, ziyenzeka kakhulu futhi zinembono emhlophe emhle eyenza ukuba zibonakale kahle kwezintandokazi zokugcina. Zisetyenziswa kahle kuma-dlina okuphakeme noma kuma-dlina okwesigodi. I-glass ibizwa ngokuphakeme kakhulu. Iyenzeka kahle, iyachazwa kahle. Iyenza indlu encane ibonakale enkulu ngoba ayisebenzi kumkhawulo wokubona. Kunezithombe ezingasuswa izinto ezimbili, njengoko-wood top noma i-metal leg. Lokhu kubona umbono oyingqayile ongabhekise kuzo zonke izindimana. Kwa-Sinya, sikhona izithombe zokudla kulezi zisekelo ezihle, ngakho-ke ungene embonweni emhle futhi ubhale iminyaka mingi. Uma usiza ukuchaza, khumbula lokho okubhekise kuhle endlini yakho nokuthi uzisebenzisa kanjani. Uyakubeka imibuko nezinkozo kusukela kwezinsuku zokudla? Noma uyasobonisa amabooki noma izinkotho? Ukuziqonda ukusebenzisa kusiza ukuchaza umhlaba owodwa.
Uma ufuna isitayela sokudla esihle, kukhona izindawo eziningi ukuthenga kuzo. Ukuthenga kwinthanethi yisibonelo esihle kakhulu. Isithu se-Sinya sayebonakala ngamaphuzu amaningi esitayela sokudla esihle okubizwa ngokuthi sikhona kumabuyer ezingathanda. Buka kuhle endlini yakho, bheka izithombe zezindlela zokuhlela nezimbalo. Ungahambisana izinhlamvu, uqonde amazwana ekusukela kwezinye. Uyazi ukuthi ubafile nini ngaphambi kokuthenga. Kuvamile futhi ukuthenga emasotsheni emvelo yokufaka izinto ezilungile. Yiza uze ubone ngokwanele, uzibheke izinto, uzibheke izimbalo ngokwanele. Kusiza ukugcina ukuthi yini oyidinga ukuba ibe yinhloko yendlini yakho. Amasotshi emvelo kuvamile ukuthenga izinkampani noma ukuthenga, kubalulekile ukubheka. Amasotshi okuthenga okusebenzayo noma okuthengwa kabusha kuvamile ukuthenga. Ungafumana isitayela sokudla esihle nesihlombe esihle nesihlombe esikhethekile. Sihle kakhulu, kungaba kunjalo ukuthi uphumelele indawo engekhoyo yokuthenga okubizwa ngokuthi isithombe esihle sokudla esifanayo nokuthenga kwendawo yakho. Uma ufuna okuphelele, ukuthenga kwenziwa ngokulinganisa kuvamile. Amasotshi amaningi njenge-Sinya ayavumela ukuthenga kwezinye. Khetha ubude, ubude, izinto ezisebenzayo esitayela sokudla sakho kuphela. Ngaphandle kokuthi ukuhlela kusobala, gcinani isikhathi sokukhetha okufana nokuhlola nokufanele. Uma ufuna izinkomba, bheka ku- Itshe/Itshe lesikhatsi isigaba sokuthenga ukuthenga okunye.